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About Me

I am a divorced mom of three incredible sons. Two of which are surviving. My youngest has autism and is the most amazing being in this world. Through adversity in life, I have become not one in a million, but 100% one of a kind. I have many passions in life, including music (I play the bass guitar), writing, reading, being around my loved ones, animals, children...the list is really never ending. As for the genres in music that I enjoy, there are so many. I love heavy metal, which is what I am more likely to play, also. I love classic rock, punk, house, opera, classical, the blues, reggae, indie, some rap and r&b classic country. There really isn't much I can say I don't like. Being a musician all my life, my appreciation expanded with time. I am also a published poet who hopes to someday write a book. I love being outdoors. Camping, fishing, sleeping under the stars. The world is a most beautiful place and there is so much of it to see, I tend to have a hard time staying inside if I don't have to. Naturally, with that comes along my love of traveling. I was fortunate growing up and my parents took us children many places I couldn't imagine have never seeing. All my friends say I am a lover, a humanitarian. I believe in the law of attraction and live by it. I am an all out, spunky, funky, and super punky kind of girl. I live life to it's fullest with nothing but positive energy! No matter where I am, I am smiling and making sure those around me are too! Nothing but love and light to give, but so happy to give it! I'm not looking to just get laid...I can do that very easily if need be...I need and want something different. Not necessarily sure what that is, precisely, I just know what it isn't. Sorry, I don't settle for anything less than I desire. I hope I don't lose all hope here...waiting for someone to grab my attention and keep it! Be different! First date...that's funny. Or should I say, what is that? It has been so long, I honestly don't know anymore. I look for spontaneity and excitement. New things. I am a very high energy person all around. I love to be silly and have fun without any cares on what others may think. Yes, I love the typical movie and drinks....but I love different even more!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bri

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-35

    Hi! My name is Bri. I am never married other african woman without kids from Orland Park, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Leann

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am tired of boys who play games. I am ready for a man who can step up to the plate and handle a woman who has a career, a mind, and is straight up honest. I am hoping to find someone to date and hang out and at some point move into a relationship. I am at a stage in life where I am focusing on me and my future as my kids will be grown soon and out of the house. I am not opposed to dating someone with kids of any age. I started running last January and am signed up for my second 5K. I am always trying to find new things to try, whether it be a new hobby or restaurant. Any questions, just ask...just be prepared for an honest..sometimes sarcastic answer. Bring it on I am always ready for a challenge!!! ;)Disclaimer: 1) I am an educated woman and I want to be mentally stimulated. I need a person who can grab my attention and engage me in a conversation, so if the best thing you have to offer is a "hey sexy" or minimal effort...I doubt we will click. 2) I am flattered and there are many fine looking black men out there, but not for me..sorry . 3) I have curves..that by no means insinuates that I am fat or don't take care of myself..it means that I am not a stick figure. Either like it or not. I am happy with me. 4) If we are talking and you expect "fun pics" immediately..keep on looking. You won't get dirty pics, sexting, or *** from me. I think something entertaining. Maybe a nice dinner followed by listening to a band and maybe some dancing. Just relaxed fun. I am not really into movies on a date, since you can't talk and get to know one another. My goal on a first date would be to have a good time, and get to know about the other person. And if there is more than one date, I am not opposed to snuggling up on the couch and watching a good movie at home or a Saturday watching football and cheering on my DAWGS!!

  • Deborah

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm a pretty laid back, straightforward girl. There's nothing high maintenance about me. Jeans and a t-shirt suit me just fine but I don't mind getting dressed up for those special occasions. I love to travel to new places, explore and learn new things. I have a great sense of humor and can also be very sarcastic at times (so no sticks in the mud). I'm extremely loyal to the ones I care about and honesty is SO important in every relationship. My family and friends come first and I will always go to great lengths to make sure they are taken care of. I'm looking for the person who I can't get out of my head, the butterflies and someone I just click with. But don't misunderstand, that doesn't mean I have to spend every waking moment with you. Togetherness is important but so is alone time and I definitely require mine. I'm fine with going out or staying in. It's all about the mood and I'm not a great planner. I tend to fly by the seat of my pants most of the time. I love trying new restaurants, catching live music and a cold beer at the local pub. I'm also just as happy at home with a good movie and hanging out on the couch with my dog. I want a person that would be fine with any of these things. If I'm in good company then I'm comfortable and loving life. I feel like I'm already pretty balanced and now I'm ready to share what I have with someone else who is willing to reciprocate. That's it in a nutshell.

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