It’s a question that so many of us ask ourselves at some point in our lives. We put ourselves out there and we are sure that love will find us, and yet somehow we still end up alone. It can be frustrating, maddening, and leave us wondering if we’ll always be alone. The truth is though that there may be some concrete answers as to why you’re still not in a relationship.
It’s not a blame game, but the answer as to why you’re not in a relationship may lie within you. So many of us tend to focus on what went wrong in past relationships or what the person we were dating did wrong, but it may start with digging deep within ourselves. When you really come down to it, the reason that we’re not in a relationship may have everything to do with the person that we are and the place that we are at in our lives.
Are YOU Mentally Prepared?
Are you really ready to move forward with your life? Are you ready to embrace a new relationship and therefore feel hopeful, positive, and focused? The reality is that most of us are somehow living or dwelling in the past. This may be the biggest reason that so many of us aren’t in a relationship — for if you’re not mentally and emotionally ready for the future then it’s not going to go the way you envision!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you and that’s not why you’re single, but you do have to mentally prepare yourself for the opportunities that lie ahead. Though you may feel that you are ready to be in a relationship, if you are dwelling on the past or still stinging from the hurt then you’re not where you need to be.
Another thing to consider as to why you’re not in a relationship is just how confident you are. If you feel bad about yourself or don’t embrace your positive traits, then how can anybody else see them? It’s time to get in touch with what makes you unique and celebrate those traits — then and only then will the right person come to you and the best relationship begin!
Sure past relationships and a lack of confidence can play into who we are, but it’s time to let it all go. In order to get into a relationship, and ensure that it’s the right relationship at that, you must get yourself mentally prepared. Learn from the past and then move on, for the longer you focus on it the more you hold yourself back from moving forward to the love and life that you really want.
To Get to What You Want It All Starts with YOU
Consider a few things as you mentally prepare yourself and move towards the relationship that you’ve always wanted. You have the power within you and now it’s up to you to make it happen.
- Learn from past mistakes and then let it go. Once you let go of past relationships and any hurt, then you can move forward with your life and find love.
- Embrace what makes you unique and feel good about it. When you feel good about yourself then the right person will start to notice that and the happy ending will come your way.
- Focus on what you want in a relationship and feel positive. Sometimes just focusing positive energy on the situation is all you need to uncover it.
- Be ready and willing to put yourself out there and see what lies ahead of you. The best relationship may be just within your grasp, so put yourself out there and see what happens!