The Torture of Choosing

In most cases people come to online dating websites when they are single and look for someone to fill the empty place in their life. But sometimes it happens that it’s much better to be single than to face the problem of choosing between two partners. Before making any decisions stop and carefully weigh all the pros and cons of staying with one of them. But unfortunately it’s much easier said than done. Sometimes it may take you years to choose your one and only and stay with him.

What to do: Compare their temperaments. Who of them is more compatible with you? They say opposites may attract, but everything is absolutely individual and who knows maybe this is not about you. Define what you want from your partner and what qualities he should possess.

Carefully evaluate your life expectations: whether you want to have children soon, your religious backgrounds, your vision of the future family etc. Whose life expectations are closer to yours? Ask your friends or family for advice. There are no people who know you better, so you may trust them, though of course you shouldn’t blindly follow their advice.

Examine your feelings about their families and friends. Up-bringing is a very important factor that has a great impact on our beliefs and values development. Moreover, keep in mind that you may spend a lot of time with them in future.

If you’ve already done all the things enumerated and still don’t know who is your one and only, then maybe you need neither of them?