“Why Am I Still Single?” – Reasons Why You Are Not Successful In Relationships

“Why Am I Still Single?” – Reasons Why You Are Not Successful In Relationships

“Why am I still single?” – almost every person had this question in their mind at least once in a lifetime. No matter if you’ve never had a proper relationship or broke up with your last boyfriend/girlfriend ages ago. You will still wonder whether it’s something wrong with you, or with people around, or it’s time to adopt 40 cats and stay lonely and miserable… 

It could also be possible that you had a lot of in your life but none of them were successful. You feel like your dreams about marriage and family won’t ever come true and you’ll never find a true . Don’t worry! Probably, it’s not that bad. 

There may be a few reasons why you are still single. Most of them are connected with your phycological issues and your environment. So, the first thing you need to do now is to be honest with yourself and try to analyze your behavior according to the reasons below. 

Read also: 5 Mistakes Most Women Make That Scare Him Away From Commitment

 

Are you really ready?

It is the simplest but, at the same time, the most common reason why someone doesn’t have long-term or any relationship at all. Ask yourself “Are you really ready for a new relationship? Is it the right time?”. Our unconscious is very powerful, so if deep inside you feel like it’s not a good time for a romantic relationship because you need to focus on your studies or work, or if you still can’t get over the last romance, you may emotionally close yourself from being available for relationships without even knowing it. 

 

You have a fear of intimacy

Relationships are all about intimacy, so if you have a fear of intimacy, it will be extremely difficult for you to find a new partner. It’s not only about physical intimacy when you can’t stand when a stranger is hugging or touching you, or just stands nearby. But it’s also about emotional intimacy when it’s hard for you to let someone into your life. If you have in mind the person you consider to be your future partner (even imaginary one), just imagine you two living together, sharing some personal stuff like family traditions and your dreams, introducing him/her to your family and friends, spending evenings together and cuddling in bed. If you felt at least a bit uncomfortable thinking about it, you might have the fear of intimacy, which is probably the reason why you fail in your relationships. 

 

You are too picky

And it’s a pretty common reason. Of course, you don’t need to anyone who just asks you. But if your future partner should be blond with blue eyes and athletic body, should have Ph.D. degree and play the violin, it’s not likely that you’ll find a lot of people like this. What you need to do is just lower your standards a little bit and maybe choose 2 – max. 3 qualities that should be in your partner. Of course, we all want to find the perfect match, but sometimes it’s really hard to find someone corresponding all your wishes. 

 

You have a low self-esteem

You will be surprised to know how many people are facing this problem nowadays. It might be connected with the growing popularity of Instagram models with their perfect bodies and even more perfect lives, so when we see a handsome man or a pretty woman, the first thing that comes to our minds is that we are not good enough for them. But this is actually not true. A lot of models and young actresses commented that they are mostly unsuccessful in finding a new relationship, just because most of the men wouldn’t dare to ask them out. 

Lack of confidence will really influence your life (and not only in romantic relationships). Just remember that no one can fall in love with you, before you like yourself first. 

 

Have you already met your perfect match?

The most obvious explanation to your relationship problems is simply that you haven’t found your person yet! Sometimes you can’t have a good relationship with someone just because you don’t have any common interests or values. It’s not that all your acquaintances are wrong people. But some people are good just to be friends with and some are just perfect for relationships. Anyway, the thing is that if you are perfect together, you’ll be happy together. All you need to do is just find this right person. One of the best ways to do it is to look for “the one” on Meetville as there you will be helped by the best matchmaking system and you’ll definitely find the right person just nearby.

Read also: Is Online Dating For You?

 

One of these reasons is probably what stops you from being happy in a relationship with someone. All you need to do now is to detect the problem and get rid of it 😉 After that, you are free to start a new relationship and turn it the way you want. So, if you are looking for a new partner in your life, don’t forget to install Meetville app on Android and iOS right now and go on a date with local !

“Why Am I Still Single?” – Reasons Why You Are Not Successful In Relationships
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Eleanor Dyer

Eleanor Dyer

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2 thoughts on ““Why Am I Still Single?” – Reasons Why You Are Not Successful In Relationships”

  • Sometimes I really don’t understand what’s wrong with me and why am I still single…
    After reading this article I started thinking maybe it’s really some kind of phycological wall stopping me from moving on and being happy?

  • I agree with Rachel. Being alone sucks!
    Though, I know that I really have some of those fears you mentioned here. The problem is, I don’t know how to get rid of them.

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