The overwhelming majority of people who come to online dating services are single and look for a life partner. Of course, it’s not an easy thing to find someone special who’d make your life complete. But sometimes it happens that it’s much better to be single than to face the problem of choosing between two partners. Before making any decisions stop and carefully weigh all the pros and cons of staying with one of them. Unfortunately, it’s much easier said than done, I see. Sometimes it may take you years to choose your one and only and stay with him or her. Here you’ll find some tips that may help you realize what you really need in your partner and alleviate your torture of choosing.
- Compare their temperaments
Who of them is more compatible with you? They say opposites may attract, but everything is absolutely individual and who knows maybe this is not about you. Define what you want from your partner and what qualities he or she should possess.
- Carefully evaluate your life expectations
Whether you want to have children soon, your religious backgrounds, your vision of the future family etc. Whose life expectations are closer to yours?
- Ask your friends or family for advice
There are no people who know you better, and of course they all wish you were happy. So, there are no reasons not to trust them, but keep n mnd that you shouldn’t blindly follow their tips of advice. The final decision must be yours.
- Examine your feelings about your would be partners’ families and friends
Up-bringing is a very important factor that has a great impact on our beliefs and values. Try to find out about their families as much as possible. Are their relationships healthy? Moreover, keep in mind that you may spend a lot of time with them in future.
And finally, if you’ve already taken all the steps enumerated and still don’t know who is your one and only, then maybe you need neither of them?