Forgetting Someone You Love

Forgetting Someone You Love

Unfortunately sometimes it happens that our happiness depends not only on us but on other people and circumstances as well. And what if your one and only has made his/her choice for both of you? What if in his/her life there is no more place for you? How can you forget the dearest person and start your love from the scratch?

Forgetting someone is one of the hardest things to do, and sometimes it may take you even a lifetime, but still there is nothing impossible. First of all remember that if you can’t change the situation you should change your attitude to it. Getting over a person you loved may require a lot of strength and patience, but always remember that time really heals and one day the sun will appear above your head again and it will shine even brighter than before.

First months after the break up seem to be a real torture, you feel lost and messed up, you always look back on your relationships and try to understand what was wrong. Just stop blaming yourself and realize that there is one way out – continuing to live, continuing studying, working, travelling, communicating with friends and relatives, whatever…

There are different methods which can help you to overcome your pain and sadness – someone needs to fall in love with someone new, someone needs to move to a new place or even to a new town, someone needs to find a new occupation or a hobby. Just don’t give up. Remember, we live only once and we all have our chance to be happy.

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5 thoughts on “Forgetting Someone You Love”

  • I think it’s better to get busy! When you’re trying to get someone out of your head, you need to put other things inside of it. In other words…get busy! It doesn’t matter how, you just need to get distracted. Go to a movie, watch a play, travel. It doesn’t matter what are you going to do–the important thing is to find something to do. Find a hobby, find something you enjoy doing, something to keep your mind busy. If your mind is busy, it doesn’t have time or space to think about the person you’re trying to forget.

  • Cry out everything you have to cry about! When we get hurt, it’s normal (and good) to cry. Don’t ever think you’re being weak for crying and don’t feel embarrassed because of it! It’s normal and it’s good! When you cry, you let go of part of your anger and hurt so you can feel less heavy. You can lock yourself in a room, if you want to, and put on some sad music…but let yourself feel the pain and cry so you can let it go. The main thing here is: Get rid of the pain! Just let it go!

  • personally I try to avoid the person! Try not to go to places you know you can meet that person. When you’re trying to forget someone and you two keep seeing each other, it gets hard to get over it. If you meet him/her somewhere, just be nice and kind, but find an excuse to go away as fast as you can! If you work or study with him/her and you can’t avoid seeing him/her, just try not to look and not to talk too much. Just be gentle and keep busy all the time so you won’t have excuses to look at him/her or to chat.

  • yyeeaah, and sometimes it happens that the person who’s made the choice for both of you starts knocking back, but the door is already closed and it’s too late…

  • Friends can make you feel good about yourself and get you distracted very easily. They will certainly make you laugh and make you see that you’re way more important than you think! The only warning is: Ask them not to talk about the person you’re trying to forget. If they start bringing the topic up in every conversation, you won’t be able to forget, and instead of making you laugh, they’re going to make you cry. So be honest and ask them not to talk about it!

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