Unfortunately sometimes it happens that our happiness depends not only on us but on other people and circumstances as well. And what if your one and only has made his/her choice for both of you? What if in his/her life there is no more place for you? How can you forget the dearest person and start your love from the scratch?
Forgetting someone is one of the hardest things to do, and sometimes it may take you even a lifetime, but still there is nothing impossible. First of all remember that if you can’t change the situation you should change your attitude to it. Getting over a person you loved may require a lot of strength and patience, but always remember that time really heals and one day the sun will appear above your head again and it will shine even brighter than before.
First months after the break up seem to be a real torture, you feel lost and messed up, you always look back on your relationships and try to understand what was wrong. Just stop blaming yourself and realize that there is one way out – continuing to live, continuing studying, working, travelling, communicating with friends and relatives, whatever…
There are different methods which can help you to overcome your pain and sadness – someone needs to fall in love with someone new, someone needs to move to a new place or even to a new town, someone needs to find a new occupation or a hobby. Just don’t give up. Remember, we live only once and we all have our chance to be happy.