Sick and tired of constant dating failures? Does it mean you’d better stop dating and hope for a miracle? Definitely – not! You are not the only person who has to go through this unpleasant life experience. If you dig deeper into this issue you’ll realize that you’ll hardly meet a person who’s never heard the “no” answer. Unfortunately, sooner or later it happens the overwhelming majority of people.
But there are still people who are more successful than others. Why? Is this just luck? I really doubt this. Nothing in life is given for free. Dating is a real art and you should work hard to increase your chances and become a dating guru.
So, stop whining and start your dating life from the scratch! This article will provide you with some effective tips of advice how to avoid date failures.
If you try approaching someone thinking that you’ll be definitely rejected, then you’ll be definitely rejected. Such a mindset doesn’t give you even a chance to fight. The more you think about the failure the more likely it to happen.
Be confident and always hope for the best. It’s difficult to seem calm when inside you are trembling with anxiety, but who sad that dating is an easy game? It’s in our nature to be attracted to confident people. Therefore inner harmony and self-confidence will become your best friends.
Become an attentive listener
Believe no other quality is so highly appreciated as the ability of listening to your partner. Sometimes it’s better to listen rather than to talk. Every person needs attention and when we become all years we show that we are really interested in our date, that we do want to get to know him/her better and sincerely empathize with his/her problems. There is a great saying: “A man is halfway in love with any woman who listens to him.” I’m sure that this is not only about men, but about all of us. We always tend to value people who value us.