Do you want to find true love but feel a bit uncertain how to do that? Do you have a lot of fears that hold you back from a true and lasting commitment? Does it feel as though you will never be able to move forward until you get a hold of these hang ups? This is not an uncommon scenario but it’s time to confront these fears once and for all. If you won’t, they may keep you from something truly great.
The reality is that if you want to move forward with your life you have to first let go of what is holding you back. You might not even be aware of what is holding you back. That’s why it’s so crucial to take a long hard look. Though you may have been hurt in the past, that doesn’t mean that it will happen this time around. Identifying and then addressing these fears will help you to find true love and be happy in this aspect of your life once and for all.
Here are the biggest and most common fears that you must come to terms with and start moving into the better part of your dating life.
You don’t want to be alone
The fear of rejection in any form is alive and well for many of us. The worry, however, is what could ultimately be holding you back. If you are so worried about being abandoned or left then you may never experience something truly wonderful. Love is always a bit of a gamble but yet you can’t worry too much about the possibilities of ending up alone.
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You worry about being hurt
Along the same lines, nobody wants to be hurt. You may have been cut deep in the past and therefore. So now you assume all relationships will end in this way. Sometimes love hurts, but in most cases, the good outweighs the bad. You have to go in with an open mind and forget about the distant possibility that you may get hurt at some point in time. Try to focus on the positive and see this relationship for what it is and not how it could end up.
You worry about past patterns happening to you again
You may have been hurt. Or you may have been left and cheated on. It hurts and it’s tough but those past patterns don’t dictate what could happen in the present day. Lead your relationship to the path you choose. It’s certain that a new partner will bring something new in your life. Focus on this new and develop your relationship in the way you want it to be.
You don’t want to be vulnerable so you put up a wall
One of the biggest fears in a relationship is being vulnerable. You allow yourself to put your trust into somebody’s hands and therefore that means that it could end up badly. Putting yourself out there can be scary but it can also be great. You will never know until you try and experience what may this new feeling bring. See what is happening at this moment and allow yourself to be open to new possibilities. Cast aside the fear and allow the good to enter in and change your mind once and for all.
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